Journal Entry:
Wed Mar 28, 2012, 6:05 PM
its simple ladies and gentlemen, erotica arouses the smartest, most complex part of you, your mind... also known as the greatest erogenous zone
porn arouses only the simplest part of you
this is one of those reasons why i love bdsm , you can give people all the visual clues, and let their mind fill in the blanks, call it visual problem solving...thats why will not get to see any explicit stuff in my strips. oh stuff of explicit nature happens... but flat our showing it is just about the lazyest way to approach it. and completely kills the imaginative aspect that it so wonderfully linked to erotic genre
of course most of you at this point are realising the simple fact that erotic aspect is merely one aspect of this series... just like sexuality is merely one aspect of the human experience.
speaking of human experience....
it is actually kinda hilarious.. i started the damn series as just a series of hot fetish pictures, and then i realised there is stuff these characters needed to say.. and apparently they do have some curious insight on the nature of human relationship, value of trust and the amount to which we reveal our true nature to our significant others.
we are all to some extent pervy, we have secret dreams and desires that we hide even from those we profess to love and trust. we spend time in relationships without ever letting that other person truly get to know us.
i for one can tell you this, sharing your deeply seeded secret desires will bring you to a level of intimacy undreamed of. other extreme is that the person will realise your desires are too different. so why risk it?
it is in the human nature to crave, to crave what we want and supress means to obsess about it
we find a way to satisfy our desires...so....sooner or later we place our relationships on the scale and match it to our desires...
and unfortunately, often the desire will outweigh the rational mind and the emotional heart..
and then we fuck up ...
buut.. if you share your pervyness... you will have the level of trust and a deeper connection than you would ever have dreamed of... bound by love.. any your own little private world of shared secrets...
so..yknow...ask yourseld this, how much do i trust the person im with?
do i trust that person enough to truly share what i consider the worst of me?
if you do.. welcome to the world of deeper understanding, private smiles whose meaning only you will know, and intimacy undreamed of..
yeaaah... ive been doing my standard work so my brain is cooking XD
oh.. tho my theory on porn and erotica has its massive holes, dont get me wrong, for instance, couldnt erotica simply be considered softcore porn... hmmmm, ah the joys of life.. where you get to think on the most irrelevant nonsense for hours XD
Thanks!
Ivo (this is in fact my name)
I admire your work, even if it did start off as some simply explicit strips.
When I first started reading your comics, I was of course initially drawn to it's visual style and the BDSM theme. But after I started getting attached to the story, I couldn't help but show it to my fiance. He liked it, but couldn't help but notice that pretty much all of it is centered around the three girls, so needless to say without going into a whole lot of detail, he started asking me some questions. He was very understanding about it all, but there were some fights because they were things I wasn't ready to say aloud. But after all was laid out in front of us both, he got to admit things, I've admitted things, and now we're closer than ever. Due to no small part by you.
So, long story short, thank you Shiniez for indirectly helping my relationship. Left to our own devices, it probably would have taken us years to get to this point.
The only problem with 'sharing' is that you have to have someone to share things with.
its that devious dash of playing with others that screams magician to me. thank you for your word and your art . it is much appreciated.
My favorite answer to this non-dilemma is:
- "erotica" is artwork that turns me on because I like it
- "porn" is artwork that turns me on and I masturbate to it
- "obscenity" is artwork that doesn't turn me on, that someone else masturbates to