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difference between porn and erotica

Journal Entry: Wed Mar 28, 2012, 6:05 PM
its simple ladies and gentlemen, erotica  arouses the smartest, most complex part of you, your mind... also known as the greatest erogenous zone

porn arouses only the simplest part of you

this is one of those reasons why i love bdsm ,  you can give people all the visual clues, and let their mind fill in the blanks, call it visual problem solving...thats why  will not get to see any  explicit  stuff in my strips. oh stuff of explicit nature happens... but flat our showing it is just about the lazyest way to approach it. and completely kills the imaginative aspect that it so wonderfully linked to erotic genre


of course most of you at this point are realising the simple fact that erotic aspect is merely one aspect of this series... just like sexuality is merely one aspect of the human experience.



                                             speaking of human experience....

it is actually kinda hilarious.. i started the damn series as just  a series of hot fetish pictures, and then i realised there is stuff these characters needed to say.. and apparently they do have some curious insight on the nature of human relationship, value of trust and the amount to which we reveal our true nature to our significant others.

we are all to some extent pervy, we have secret dreams and desires that we hide even from those we profess to love and trust.  we spend time in relationships without ever letting that other person truly  get to know us.

i for one can tell you this, sharing your deeply seeded secret desires  will bring you to a level of intimacy undreamed of. other extreme is that the person will realise your desires are too different. so why risk it?

it is in the human nature to crave, to crave what we want and supress means to obsess about it

we find a way to satisfy our desires...so....sooner or later we place our relationships on the scale and match it to our desires...

and unfortunately, often the desire will outweigh the rational mind and the emotional heart..
and then we fuck up ...

buut.. if you  share your pervyness...  you will have the level of trust and a deeper connection than you would ever have dreamed of... bound by love.. any your own little private world of shared secrets...


so..yknow...ask yourseld this,  how much do i trust the person im with?
do i trust that person enough to truly share what i consider the worst of me?
if you do.. welcome to the world of deeper understanding, private smiles  whose meaning only you will know,  and intimacy  undreamed of..






yeaaah... ive been doing my standard work so my brain is cooking XD

oh.. tho my theory on porn and erotica has its massive holes, dont get me wrong, for instance, couldnt erotica simply be  considered softcore porn... hmmmm, ah the joys of life.. where you get to think on the most irrelevant nonsense for hours XD

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:icondantemonti:
I love your stuff... written and drown, i think, i can finally find the words to express myself to the person im with and share with her my pervy side. We (she and i) have been waching your works since you started. i guess i never had the time to thank you enough for everithing.

Thanks!

Ivo (this is in fact my name) :D
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:iconbillygoat654:
so my greatest erogenous zone is really really good at puzzels? :P and agreed your comic goes deep into the rabbit hole sometimes.... and yea i know thats what she said :P
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:icongoldenmoonali:
Mood: Love ~GoldenMoonAli Apr 9, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Reading your journal makes me realize that there are a lot of shades of grey. I am happy that you acknowledge that there are things that should be appreciated with the complex mind. Personally I don't believe that all nudity is associated with porn. It is questionable but I like your take on it.
I admire your work, even if it did start off as some simply explicit strips.
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:iconmorrigansteel:
Have learned alot from your strips and have really come to enjoy the characters and their thought processes. Wish I could have learned this many years sooner lol. Great Job!
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:iconpeep1317:
I agree with you about that entire part on relationships. Actually, since I've started reading these comics a few months ago, I've started learning things about me that I didn't even admit to myself, let alone my fiance. To call my him, "an understanding man" would be a great understatement, especially after all of this.
When I first started reading your comics, I was of course initially drawn to it's visual style and the BDSM theme. But after I started getting attached to the story, I couldn't help but show it to my fiance. He liked it, but couldn't help but notice that pretty much all of it is centered around the three girls, so needless to say without going into a whole lot of detail, he started asking me some questions. He was very understanding about it all, but there were some fights because they were things I wasn't ready to say aloud. But after all was laid out in front of us both, he got to admit things, I've admitted things, and now we're closer than ever. Due to no small part by you.
So, long story short, thank you Shiniez for indirectly helping my relationship. Left to our own devices, it probably would have taken us years to get to this point. :D
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:iconsadie626:
Mood: Love ~Sadie626 Apr 2, 2012  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
I agree with you, completely! You're so good at saying things in just the right way!
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:iconyosushi:
~yosushi Mar 31, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
"if you share your pervyness... you will have the level of trust and a deeper connection than you would ever have dreamed of... "

The only problem with 'sharing' is that you have to have someone to share things with.
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:iconjaz212:
~Jaz212 Mar 30, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Were you ever a magician in another life. you Sure appear to have a dash of wizard, pinch of trickster, and the creative splash of an artist.

its that devious dash of playing with others that screams magician to me. thank you for your word and your art . it is much appreciated.
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:iconmjranum:
"porn" and "erotica" are just words that are used to describe broad classes of material. Thus, any difference between them has to come from (and be part of) the definition. There isn't some kind of natural law that defines and divides them; it's a purely human construct. Which means that, since there's no objective difference, and no solid completely accepted definitions, people will always disagree to some degree. In other words, "who cares?"

My favorite answer to this non-dilemma is:
- "erotica" is artwork that turns me on because I like it
- "porn" is artwork that turns me on and I masturbate to it
- "obscenity" is artwork that doesn't turn me on, that someone else masturbates to
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