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(Contains: nudity and sexual themes)
it is a funny thing actually, people often have a massive misconception of what its like being a dom. but actuallya dom in the bdsm relationship is the carrier of all the responsibility,. dom is responsible for both keeping the illusion alive in the game while allways thinking safety first

allways thinking , and modifying ideas. worrying about any given situation far more than he or she would ever show, for remember, illusion must be maintained. and while the peyoff of the sexual pleasure in bdsm session usually far surpasses anything else, it is a game that is controlled by a very meticulous master


so , yknow... domming aint easy XD
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Aemi 2 hours ago  Hobbyist Digital Artist
ugh. TELL me about it. The constant drive to impress your sub is almost overwhelming T_T
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:iconmsheekhah:
This is the kind of shit I think about, literally, all the time. Learned something new about myself.
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:iconlorddarkstarr:
So true, ohhh so true... Which is why I like being a switch. When the pressure gets too much, I can relax and let someone else take control for a while.
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:iconc-life:
Yep. I need to borrow your brain for a bit ok?
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Mitsukai-Aka Aug 23, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
I once heard it said as this "Respect the sub because they have the power to say no. Respect the dom because they are the one keeping you safe."
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:iconturtle-lover73:
It'd sound better as "Respect the sub because they have the power to say no. Respect the dom because they are the one keeping you from needing to."
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Mitsukai-Aka Dec 27, 2013  Professional Artisan Crafter
You're right, that does sound better. :) 
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MysticSK Aug 15, 2013  Hobbyist Photographer
Oh, this is so very, very true.

Ever think about condensing some of the pieces of the story like this one into some kind of manual or handout for aspiring BDSM players? It would save so much time and prevent so many problems. Then again, I suppose they could just keep reading Shiniez...
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:iconduskricorn:
ever since reading your comics, you've made an amazing point about sex and relationships. i kinda respect and understand bdsm because of your amazing art and how gentle you've kinda approached your characters/story/sex scenes. lol. you fucking rock. :D
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