alan and ally couldnt really work... tho ally did learn alot from him, and taught him alot about the limits of human body....
it was a strange but strong friendship
alltho ally still shudders when she thinks of some of his ideas
this intense side of him was what kept him single for most of time.. he had specific tastes
and i guess the secret to happyness in life is to find someone in front of whom you can be your freakiest pervyest self
those relationships last, they are unchallenged by unfulfilled and unexplored secret desires
but they do require the greatest levels of trust.
ask yourself this, can i tell my significant other my deepest darkest desires, do i trust that persons bond with me to the point i can temper it by showing my worst
if the answer is yes, and if you have done that....
then congratulations, you got something special
also fotr all the bdsm connoseurs, safety word is one of the essential parts of bdsm play, alan figured out early that a safety melody is a better idea, a simple tune that can be hummed even with a gag
and well ..ally aint humming it XD